According to statistics, the average age for the first time use of alcohol is 13 years old for girls and 11 years old for boys.
Statistics also show teenagers who started drinking before they turn 15 years old are at an increased risk to end up dependent and addicted to alcohol in their adult life, compared to teenagers who started drinking after they turn 21 years old – the legal age for drinking in the United States.
Alcohol is considered one of the major causes of motor vehicle accidents in teens. A study in 2010 showed alcohol-related accidents accounted for 56% of deaths in teenagers 15 to 20 years old. These sobering facts should cause you serious concern if you suspect your teenager is drinking.
Consequences of Underage Drinking
Like with most temptations, there will come a time in your teen’s life they will be tempted to try alcohol. You cannot be with them all the time to tell them not to drink. However, you can educate your teen about the probable consequences of underage drinking so they can make an informed decision when the temptation presents itself. Probable consequences of underage drinking:
Drinking can be very addictive. If you suspect your teen is addicted to alcohol, you have to do everything you can to help your teen break free from their addiction.
Preventing Underage Drinking
Dialogue with your teen regularly about underage drinking and the consequences before it becomes a problem in their life.
Once drinking becomes a problem it may be very difficult to speak with your teen, especially if they’ve become defensive. Spend time with your teen, gain/regain their trust, and show them how much you love them despite their faults. Ask them if they have any problems they wish to share with you.
Be firm yet gentle and never show anger. Your response should be based on tough love. Do not blame them for their problems. You are only going to force them away and delay help. Instead, try to understand your teen and together help them come up with solutions to their problems.
Establish standards of behavior while your teen continues to live under your roof. Support your teen in their efforts to stop drinking. Encourage them and cheer them on each day they beat their addiction.
If they’re having a tough time stopping drinking, then seek professional help. You teen will need counseling and guidance to break the habit.
Jennifer Dae is a freelance article writer for parenting blogs. She writes about parenting tips and advice for troubled teens.